10 Mini Habit Changes For Women In Midlife (That Lead To Amazing Health Gains)

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So many women in midlife struggle with sticking to habit changes that will improve their health and give them the best possible chance at losing their belly fat that commonly collects around their middle.

It’s a shitty time constantly trying to keep up with all of the changes going on in our bodies during midlife. Absolutely none of the changes we experience summon up that feeling of “Gee, I’m so glad I made it here so I could get to enjoy this wonderful symptom” response. Except perhaps the cessation of our period.

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It’s often a “blinkin heck what next” as you put down the phone from making yet another appointment with your doctor to discuss the latest failing in your body.

So how can we make this easy?

So easy that you’ll frankly wonder if you’re achieving anything until you realise you surprisingly got the name of your kids right this morning and you also managed to get through the whole day without taking a midday nap to enable you to get through the next 10 hours before the bliss of bed where you get to play at sleeping until tommorow.

The answer is micro changes. Little mini changes that you hardly notice. You make one change and then when you’re ready you make another and they’re so small you’re not even conscious that you’re making them.

These changes will, at first, seem like they’re not having any impact. And then one day you’ll notice you don’t make that moaning sound when you get out of bed and your not sure when it stopped. You can go to the supermarket for milk and come back with milk. Not frozen pizza, a loaf of bread, some lettuce and no milk. Your stomach feels so much less bloated and you haven’t yelled at the kids for at least an hour.

So make the micro changes and enjoy the boost in brain power and body movement.

1. Drink more water

For our bodies to operate well, we need water and plenty of it. For us to experience benefits beyond just functioning day-to-day we need to be drinking more than 2 litres of water.

Benefits you’ll see if you can have more than 2 litres are: better digestion, lovely plumped up skin, better energy levels and brain function as well as easier weight loss. All you have to do is add one or 2 more glasses to your 2 litres per day and you’ve ticked off a mini habit.

Read this for more info on hydration: Are You Getting Enough Water? The Effects Of Dehydration On Your Health

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2. Hold a plank for 10 seconds

As you move into midlife, thanks to decreasing estrogen levels you lose vital muscle mass and bone density. You can help counteract that loss by doing a plank.

Planks strengthen your core, from your pelvis to your shoulders as well as your neck and legs.

As these muscles grow in strenth your posture will improve.

The body uses its core muscles to help maintain balance which can be a problem when we are older.

10 seconds is quick and should be easy. If it’s too easy keep going until you are unable to and each day add on another second or two until your holding for 1 or 2 minutes each day.

3. Move at every opportunity

Often while I’m waiting for the jug to boil you’ll find me running on the spot to get my steps up or doing pushups against the bench. If you do enough of these mini movement breaks you’ll start to burn calories. So next time you find your self standing in one spot just move.


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4. Swap one bad thing for one healthy thing

Make one swap today. Then when it has become routine and easy, swap another, but only when you’re ready. If you take on too much at one time that’s when you can falter. Here are a few suggestions:

  • Instead of rice pulse some cauliflower in a food processor for a few seconds and either steam or microwave until tender (not mushy). Add a good sludge of olive oil and salt a pepper. Your stomach will thank you for it. Seriously you feel so much lighter not having all that starchy rice.
  • Swap pasta for zucchini noodles made with a vegetable sprialliser or if you can’t be bothered with that and let’s face it “fast and easy” is the catch cry of many a home cook who’s just over it, break off small florets of cauliflower, steam or microwave, add olive oil and salt and pepper and put your sauce over the top. This is easier than cooking pasta and so much healthier.

Not all swaps need to be food related:

  • Swap your slower walk for a brisk walk and include an uphill section. Go on push yourself until your puffing a little.
  • Swap your deodorant for one that is aluminium free or even better completely natural. NO PONG is a completely natural deodorant and unlike others, I’ve tried, works very well.
  • Swap your body and facial moisturiser for a completely natural brand. There is now a fantastic selection and many of them won’t break the bank. I’ve been using Moo Goo on my body and I love it, it’s so much better than anything else I’ve tried. Some of the artificial ingredients in your everyday moisturiser can be extremely harmful to your health, including but not limited to disrupting your hormones which is something we need about as much as a dose of the salts so next time you’re at the pharmacy take a look at what they have or go along to this online store for a peek.

Other swaps you could consider are:

  • Soda for water.
  • Butter for olive oil.
  • Sugar for stevia.

5. Do 5 minutes meditation today

Next week do 6 until your up to 10 then maybe 15 and optimally 20 minutes per day.

5 minutes out of your day to sit and just be zen while you focus on breathing and nothing much else is not a chore. Do it at both ends of the day and you’ll have done 10. Nothing wrong with my maths. That’ll be the micro changes I’ve been making.

After 6 weeks you’ll notice that little annoying things don’t bother you as much, that you’re better able to cope with stressful situations and you feel a better sense of wellbeing.

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6. Add some healthy fats into your day

Healthy fats keep everything running smoothly in your body and will help when you in the littlest room of the house if you know what I’m talking about. They will also keep you feeling fuller for longer so you won’t be tempted to snack between meals.

More healthy fats can lower your bad LDL Cholesterol while increasing your good HDL Cholesterol.

God fats include:

  • Avocado
  • Nuts
  • Seeds
  • Extra virgin Olive oil

7. Jounal for a few minutes each day

If you need help you can find all sorts of journal prompts on Google but one that will give you the warm and fuzzies when done regularly is

“What am I grateful for today?”

Or if your over warm and fuzzy and want to step into the dark side for a bit try this one.

“How am I feeling today?”

Journaling is a great way to get stuff out of your head onto the page where you might be able to make sense of it or at the very least feel better for relieving your mind of the burden of stroppy thoughts.

More on Journaling:  What A Self-Care Journal Can Do For Your Health

8. Add some ground flaxseed to your morning smoothie or muesli

Flaxseeds have been around for centuries and may help reduce your risk of heart disease, cancer, diabetes and stroke. This is quite the powerful plant food.

Flaxseeds have many health benefits which include being high in fibre Omega 3 fatty acids and protein. It is a superfood ingredient that will help you to feel fuller for longer and absolutely improve the health of your gut. Plus if your having trouble in your back end this is your panacea.

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9. Do some deep breathing

Stopping regularly to do some deep breathing will decrease stress, the of health and weight loss. It will increase the feeling of calm and wellbeing and if you do it when you get into bed it will help you get to sleep.

Try this 4-7-8 method, I use this all the time especially when I’m finding something particularly tough to get through.

Read:? Simple Breathing Techniques To Reduce Your Menopause Symptoms

10. Go to bed 30 minutes earlier

This one’s big. For good health and easy weight loss, you need less stress. For less stress, you need a good amount of quality sleep. For a good amount of sleep, you need to be in bed for a decent length of time. The quality is for another day and you might like to read this post to help with that:

Read: How To Sleep Better At Night Naturally

So switch off the tele, dim the lights and put the dog out to pee. Then sit in your favourite spot, that’s not your bed a,nd meditate, journal, read, do some relaxing yoga. Or as I do, just sit on the balcony enjoying the stars and occassional bat flying by. Within 10 minutes my body is telling me it’s time to sleep and off I go to bed. It’s one of my favourite parts of the day.

So that’s my pick of 10 mini habit changes you can start making today that will have a tiny impact on your time and thinking but a huge positive impact on your health and ability to lose weight in midlife.

2 thoughts on “10 Mini Habit Changes For Women In Midlife (That Lead To Amazing Health Gains)”

  1. Having such a stressful day today and stumbled across this post. So far I've drunk the water, done the plank and the deep breathing and the meditation! Feeling considerably calmer. Really helpful post, thanks.


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